pondering on

i just finished watching a movie [intended not to present the movie title] as i was keeping tract with the story, i then realized something.. which are existing in a real scenario, not just of that in the movie per se.. i'm actually talking about my self. Geez! I could relate to the main actress [NOT that i wanted to be on her place lol].. I MEAN, i've learned to as much as possible avoid the "taboos" in a relationship--that is, boy and girl relationship.. Are there such? Oh well, there are for me and i don't expect anyone of you to buy my opinions/realizations...Or maybe my cognition and perception of the situations shown in the movie have gone way too far.. I am to share them anyway.. Here, im gonna enumerate as i ponder on all of them.

1. When two persons don't want to talk about something, it may be because of two things--it just means nothing or it's everything.
2. At the moment you know there is something wrong, don't (as much as possible) let another day pass by without talking about it. An open communication is very much important.
3. When you know you aren't gonna say any good (whenever one's angry or something), then just don't say anything. Better to keep silent. Divert you attention. Wait until everything's "cool".
4. Be careful of anything that comes out of your mouth. Think first before uttering even a word. Because sometimes, we tend to say things based on our emotions at that particular moment.
5. Don't conclude in a wrong light. That won't get the situation any better.
6. Marriage is companionship.


I hope i could actually work on them..personally..